Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Life Changes

I have not moved quite this far, but I am by the sea!
I have been in the process of unpacking after a move. It has caused me a mix of sweet, bittersweet and just plain ugly memories. Before my move, much of what I owned was in storage, so opening each box was a new experience. In some I found little trinkets that my children gave me over the years, like the little sticky pad holder that says 'I "heart" daddy' or the needlepoint pillow made by one of my kids in class. But in other boxes I found reminders of the rough life I had to live, a blanket that was old and itchy and grayed when I got it and only got worse over time. Reminders of my divorce, reminders of poverty and reminders of life's little moments. Each and every package I open seems to have a little of my life tucked in. I find that the simple act of unpacking my boxes is walking me through the best and worst of my life. I have made it a point to keep some things and to throw others out, I don't need certain memories! Life goes on!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

went through a hosefire....my life was in 75 boxes.....worked it down to 40 in 2 weeks.....some memories are better forgotten

Mickey said...

I am sorry for your loss, but life will and does go on. I have had severe loss too and somehow there is always healing!